I think people are confusing working with a faulty system and using tools to work with the system.

Working with a faulty system:
"Titan has latency, but if you trigger an action after dodging, it will force a position check."
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"You can't send tells into dungeons, but make a linkshell and invite everyone new you meet in there so you can bypass this."

These are two examples of broken systems, which players manage to work around and deal with it. But it's unacceptable and shouldn't be naturalized.