Quote Originally Posted by BornToEnd View Post
Totally true. I agree with what you said about cybering too - as long as both people are happy about it, I can't see the harm in it.

EDIT:
http://www.nytimes.com/2011/04/24/fa...mid=tw-nytimes

New York Times points out that WoW (o noes I said WoW) has more subscribers than Match.com and people find love (and probably cybering) through it.
there is harm in cybering actually you do not know who these people really are. And chances are it is a pedophile looking for a target. Watch the news (new york times isn't news it pr fluff) Or read the newspaper. Or go online to read them/watch them kids (mostly young girls) are found dead or turn up missing from meeting these guys (or women) over the internet mostly from nno now, used to be IM chat sites. People fake their id 99% of the time. So to safe cybering is "safe" is a joke. Unless you are 100% certain you know the person 100% i wouldn't deem them safe.