Come to Durandal (JP/Legacy) it's fun there and if you want a quiet run you can tick the J box, a noisy run the E box or a weird time the other two. I'll hook you up with an (English speaking) LS and FC so you'll have people to do dungeons with and stuff rather than relying on just 3 other DF peoples. If you do, send me a /tell if I'm on.

I've had only 1 issue with DF in all my time and that was with an annoying healer.