OP, you make ZERO sense.

Item level has been in the game since release. Why are you just complaining about it now? Because Endgame dungeons queues are going to have a minimum item level? That's a necessity.

The behavior you're whining about occurs in every MMO regardless of having gearscore, item level or nothing. FFXI was EXACTLY THE SAME. The people who took the game more seriously than others would require that you had top level gear for content. If you showed up to a Dynamis or Salvage with crappy gear, you were kicked by those people. Nothing is different, and FFXI didn't even have item level.

You literally do not have a point.