I have a lot of memories on XI, it was the first MMO I really put time into. But I don't want to fight another crab for 5 minutes just to get 100xp on an EM. It's worse when something was "too weak to be worthwhile" killed you and you were 20 levels above it or more (sabotenders, I'm looking at you). After the game uncapped from 75 it became too different. Abyssea just made zone parties obsolete. Sure there was still some teamwork, but it's more akin to an instance than the regular parties of yore. Also waiting on some NMs was just a whole lot of nothing, I did it plenty of times myself and got some great gear--and some even better memories, but I don't prefer doing it. If I wanted it I'd go back to XI, there are still strong communities there. XI was nice for its day, but I like the direction XIV is going. There's enough to remind of XI here but with a (opinion) better pacing.