The solution here is really simple: if you refuse to make a video unless you can monetize it, then make a video about a different game. I'd love to hear your evidence that it's "hurting the game" meanwhile digital sales have been suspended because too many people are trying to play. FFXIV is doing just fine without you making money from videos about it. People who don't monetize their videos will be more than happy to get the views you would have had.

As for music, I'm personally thrilled about the lack of FFXIV AMVs, and death metal playing over a LP video.

Now, I'm not in favor of this measure. But I also don't see how it negatively affects the game/community.