You didn't pay extra for Early Access. It came with the standard edition too, as long as you Pre-Ordered.

I'm not agreeing that SquareEnix has done the right thing and gone along with a full release and is wasting resources on this when working on a way to be able to remove the limit on servers without breaking them, or implementing an AFK kick system, or at least a functional queue, would all be better things to spend their resources on.

However you didn't pay extra for Early Access. They haven't taken your money yet, if you weren't able to use Early Access because of the server issues you should have known not to submit your key and activate your 30 free days. Not to mention EA isn't over until the 29th anyways so by doing that you're wasting free days anyways (unless you want the Pre-Order/CE items really badly.)

SquareEnix will likely do something like give everyone who pre-ordered an extra 5 days free or something. I could see that happening. But they aren't going to start announcing that kind of thing until the issues are resolved.