I see both sides of the issue here. One one hand, we as players have now paid for this game, while no one expects it to go perfect, they never do, this is way more then should be expected from a company as large as SE, with the resources they have behind them. Too many people on the server? They want to monitor it manually? Fine, open a queue that they can manually allow players back in at the pace they choose. Don't have it be totally random. My wife and I are both playing, she has gotten into the server 3 times, and been booted back out 3 times, yet I am sitting here unable to get in at all, on the same server. I expect more from SE.
I am aware SE has a huge task at hand with a launch like this, and I am understanding about that and not rage quitting. I am just disappointed in this. This is supposed to be a reboot of a game they admit was bad, they should have been way more cautious on how this game was at launch then this. I am sure there are some people that played 1.0 that are already done with this... how is it different? Can you really blame them? I really hope SE is working hard on this issue and is able to get it fixed before the full launch. I want this game to succeed, I have high hopes that this will be a game I can get into and have a fun community again... time will tell.