I've seen a LOT of misinformation posted in this thread, and as someone who had the same issue, but is now all fixed up, let me give you some first hand advice.

Last night, SONY, not SE refunded the price YOU PAID for your game to your wallet on the PS Store. If you bought CE, you got 59.99 back, if you bought SE, you only got 39.99 back.

A lot of people panicked last night and either bought the opposite version that they originally had or went through extreme lengths to get the client ready for today. Stupid move on their part. They were scared by idiots who didn't know what the hell they were talking about. Those of us who waited for something official to happen received a message in their XMB mail box with a voucher containing a preorder code for the game. I got the CE version because that's what I originally ordered... not sure if they upgraded SE buyers to CE or not. So now I have 59.99 in my PS wallet, and a copy of A Realm Reborn for free. Life is good... because I DIDN'T PANIC.

If you preordered off PSN between Aug 13-15 you should get the same deal. Not sure why you haven't yet but it will come.