Recently, I had an issue with a RL friend over beta chat. Eventually, we resolved our issues by sending a bunch of silly emotes to one another. Then we both were so tired from arguing, we logged off to take naps . Emotes can help to make light of situations that might be in need of some lightening.

I wanted to say that I wholeheartedly agree with the points you have made so far in your article.

That said, what course of action might one take when someone else tells one that his or her feelings are not worthy of consideration? The reasons might vary, but a few examples might be:

1) "I have never done anything wrong to you, (thus you cannot say you have issues with me)"
2) "I believe you are an emotional individual, (thus I cannot trust your judgments about my actions)"

or similar?

I understand this isn't an "Ask Hiir" column in some Eorzean newspaper (though it should be!!!), but given what you have written so far, I trust that we operate on a similar wavelength, morally speaking, and I was kind of hoping you came up with a solution for the above that I have yet to find. Also, you made mention of accepting one's contributions to a given situation, so I wanted to hear more words about that.

Thank you, darling, for any assistance you can provide. I hope to see you on the game sometime, kind lalalady. ^_^