
Originally Posted by
Gethyn
As a female, playing a female character, I have to say that I personally have never had a problem with the outfits. I like clothes. I like gear. I like the artistic design of it, I like the way it looks on my character, I like that it occasionally blatently defies the laws of physics. (Like the female hyur undershirt. They would NOT be that stable without some form of support that that flimsy piece of cloth is NOT providing. Underwire, anyone?) I enjoy it, in a 'this looks awesome, but why would I wear armor with a gaping whole in the middle into battle?' sorta way. I occasionally spend excessive amounts of time hunting for gear that's hopelessly out of date stat wise cuz I like the way it looks. Such is my prerogative, because that's part of what I, as a player, enjoy doing in the game, and brings me happiness.
What I do object to is when other players make me feel as though I should be embarrassed to wear gear, or make a big deal of its 'sexiness'. Maybe it's an issue of how deeply people identify with their characters, but when I log in, I think 'that's my character,' not 'that's me'. So when people make flirting comments I'm always vaugely confused, because I'm not wearing that gear. I'm in jeans and a tee-shirt, with a can of mountain dew. It's a fantasy world, where we don't have to worry about practical concerns like cold, or heat, or battle wounds, or real physics, so why shouldn't my character wear whatever looks cute? But my character isn't a person, she's just a collection of 1s and 0s. So I guess it's when people transfer her visual appearance onto me that it gets wierd for me.
TLDR: The gear itself doesn't cause problems. It falls to the playerbase to treat each other like human beings, regardless of what their digital avatar looks like. So...don't be creepers. If you're gonna fantasize about someone's char, kindly keep it to yourself.