
Originally Posted by
Kurique
I'm going to take a shot at answering the race part of this.
Race, like most things in life, is fairly easy when it is a singular thing. If I'm wearing a shirt that's pink, and a person asks me what color my shirt is, I answer pink. Easy peasy. If the shirt I'm wearing is multiple colors, or falls between colors, or looks like a different color under a certain light, how do you answer this question? You could give context; write a page response every time it comes up. You could pick the option that is relevant to whatever you are doing at the time.
To show the difficulty in practice, I am a mix of three races, with all 4 of my grandparents being of different ethnicities. One of those ethnicities is considered white (My grandmother was Italian.), but she had darker skin. Most people who are not black would say that I'm black, while almost all black people know that I'm mixed. On a form, where I can sometimes only pick a single option, what's the correct answer?
I've always said that I'm black when I'm tired; when it's too much work to correct someone.
Historically, there have been ethnicities that have switched races many times, since race is a societal construct. (So are ethnicities.) Mexicans have ping ponged back and forth on government forms since the inception of the two countries. Native Americans are such a diverse people, only connected by their oppression. The people of Mena are connected by an export. Society chooses where to draw the arbitrary lines and they constantly change in both large and subtle ways. There will always be people that don't fit within any system because we are trying to compress a complex idea of genetics, culture, and environment and reduce it to a handful of words on a checklist where nuisance is not welcome.
Long story short, go with whatever someone says and if it becomes confusing ask them about it if they are receptive or research the answer for yourself.