Assuming this isn't a troll thread . . . .

A blanket change would not be well received. Most players I know have no issues with people wanting their pronouns to be what they want (or have any issues with devs putting options in the game to do so) but don't force us to adopt pronouns that we don't use ourselves as it's no different to how you feel about the current pronouns/gender settings.

I have no issues if the devs add the option to have pronouns set by the player (akin to how BG3 works) though that may take quite a bit of dev time to go through and change all current content (not sure if any VA cutscenes refer to our gender?) If so, they would also need to be re-done which I can't see happening personally from a business/development point of view.