You're not going to believe this, but...

I got Aurum Vale in leveling roulette.
The tank was a new sprout.
We cleared the first room, and in fact the entire dungeon, without any issues or deaths.
The tank was facing the 2nd boss the wrong way, and a couple of us got clipped a few times, but it was fine.
People actually ate the fruits to clear the debuff at appropriate times.
After we clear, the tank says they are new at tanking and asks if he did okay.
We tell him he was good, and one person commented he could work on boss facing but otherwise great job.
The tank is grateful for the advice and thanks us all for our patience.
We all went our separate ways on friendly terms and no one (I assume) went and screamed on the forums about entitled "you don't pay my sub" babies who can't handle criticism.