I don't honestly get the "Sucks to be you next time actually use your house" comments.

How many "vanity items" do you own in game that you never actually look at? In the armory, dresser, or whenever? How would you feel if they were taken away?

I know houses are scarce, but the lottery system is as fair as could be. And it seems like OP has some actual shit going on in their real life that takes precedence over logging in, even before considering 21 of those 45 days were spent having to move, which is not only a not very fun thing to do, but also likely a period of no internet connection at all. Show some compassion. Have you never taken long breaks from the game, never had things coming up?

It seems to me like the vitriol you reserve for people you don't deem worthy of owning a house would be better directed at SE instead for allowing the system to exist in this form. But can't bully the small indie company I guess.

Bottom of the line, something happened that is making this player enjoy the game a lot less, to the point of thinking of quitting, and all the GCBTW has to say is "you deserved it lmao".