These things, like.. a lot of things.. yee.. lol, always feel funny for me to read because maybe there are sometimes "make it exactly like WoW x y z" but other times, most of the time, I see this for things that are just plain good ideas.
"Lets at least have as good a glamour system as WoW", and things like that I see a lot here. Maybe rarely I'll see something that isn't clearly as 'good' like some people like borrowed power system, but I almost never see that.
Yet I see lots of "don't make it like WoW" and it leaves me scratching my head like where are the pit of bad WoW ideas that people seem to be seeing a lot, that I tend to only see the "BEST" from WoW being suggested here. Why the heck wouldn't I want glamour log upgrades? Why the heck wouldn't I want upgraded Garrisons (if they did it to our current Garrison GC system, or if Island Sanctuary), of course I want instanced housing system (but if they did Garrison right then sure why not- it wasn't bad content miss a few key, fairly large, missteps by Blizzard).
"Don't make it like WoW!" and, for the most part, I only see either neutral or actual /fantastic/ ideas suggested from that game.
Maybe someone might be like "I get we don't want race racial abilities because the whole FFXIV game is play how you want, but can we get a bit more character on our jobs?"
'don't make it like WoW' ...? Is there literally no flavor we can do to the game? I find that really hard to believe, especially given we're at the most homogenized state of the game. To which I even suggest non-combat flavor as a easy way to dodge that reason for not doing it.
I think it's fair to like the game as it is, but sometimes I see stuff like that and immediately think 'wot?' lol. Now for your post I don't know the context of what you're thinking of, just in general I'd say /most/ of those situations are for things that are generally very well received and due to the similarities of the game could very well easily argued to fit FFXIV (like glamour log upgrades).
Perhaps I only click on the threads I find interesting, and generally ignore the other ones.. Selection bias /shrug ?