Should I remain FCless?

[Kes13a]

its kind of a personal decision and not one that you will get a good answer to on the forums.

basically boils down to "do you want to be in one"

you say you miss out on things due to your schedule, and then say they are not living up to promises.

its usually a two way street. if they are in a different time zone, or you work all nights and sleep all day when most are on, your expectations are unlikely to be met. so hard to say what promises, in your situation, they are not "living up to"

[NekoMataMata]

its kind of a personal decision and not one that you will get a good answer to on the forums.

basically boils down to "do you want to be in one"

you say you miss out on things due to your schedule, and then say they are not living up to promises.

its usually a two way street. if they are in a different time zone, or you work all nights and sleep all day when most are on, your expectations are unlikely to be met. so hard to say what promises, in your situation, they are not "living up to"

This is one of the best answers. I'm not the most social person and I miss a lot of my FC's events but when I feel socialable and when I have the time to talk(usually discord), I make an attempt. And that attempt is met with a good response, so I'm happy.

But you have to make some attempt. You can't just immediately expect your fc to carry conversations and drag you into events and other stuff.