In my opinion, you were not rude. Please do not be discouraged.
He just didn't want his topic to be buried in a topic that he had no interest in.
Or he was simply poking fun at you for being distressed.
But we need to be very careful.
An incomplete conversation with incomplete words may lead to misunderstandings.
That is very unfortunate.
I know that you all have no animosity toward us. It is only natural.
But not all Japanese forums are like that, really unfortunately.
I am sharing your concerns with my friends in Japan.
That is as far as I can understand, and I will be careful not to misunderstand.
I hope that we can share our concerns with our Japanese friends.
What my friends did was rude behavior. I sincerely apologize. I am sorry.
I appreciate your "like". Thank you!
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