I'd like to chime in as a possible third type. I played WoW for 16 years until this past June. You would say I came over with the most recent wave of WoW refugees. Im bad at games but I still love them. I will probably never do or even an attempt an extreme or savage. I just level jobs and do MSQ and mess around with performance on bard. Im kind of an ultra casual who never fit in well on WoW. Final Fantasy XIV so far has been kind of "everything I wanted WoW to be" for years. I am never rude or insulting in game. I always have the text chat " hi first time im new" ready to go. I have severe social anxiety and am using this game to help me overcome it. Anyway, I may not be an amazing player and people often disagree with my opinions on certain things on these forums, but please know some of us just want to have fun and not bother anyone.

That said, OP you are right actually. I get very defensive and will fight anyone who asks for systems or policies that I have seen lead to toxicity in WoW, such as mythic+, third party tools that interface with the game, and PvP. If someone wants WoW, they should go back to WoW and leave this beautiful game alone.