The concept isnt the notion that every situation is perfect thats what ppl have an issue with
Are you not aware that gang mentality exist? Where a group sits there and passive aggressive or aggressivly targets someone until they leave or say something and both being against the rules doesnt encourage civil community it encourages a majority that its okay to gang up and basicly hold someone has a silent hostage which ive personally delt with in alot of games..
Its the same idelogy of if ur in an abusive situation you have to stay and not say anything.
This is what your not understanding that some groups are more uncivilized than the person. Its like saying if a group of bully's cornor you, that you must stay let them harm you mentally and physically and you cant do a thing or leave