I agree with the part of saying that wall to wall pulls are essentially expected now, but that's also because of the simplifcations done to tanks and healers, thus, they are easier to play. People don't do that to spite anyone.
On the other hand, if it's an impatient brat just kick them. There's the vote-kick button, and if that doesn't help shut them up by becoming a better player; that's how I did it.