I find it very funny that OP never replies to ANY of the constructive responses.
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Dear Aneshda,

Common sense is a thing, and the world lives with it. You might want to be "out of the box", but common sense will weigh you back down. Therefore, you should (if possible) have some of it, too. SE might add some more flashy skills to make it seem like WAR is doing big damage, but it will never - EVER - be a DPS (or DD as you keep calling it).

If the game is causing you so much distress, I suggest you leave it and play something else to have a peace of mind.

Sincerely,
A concerned fellow FF14 Player.