Hey Nanase Sakamoto, I play on Besaid and am also relatively new. Started playing about 2 weeks ago with the same kind of pessimism you had and I have to agree with your post I love the game, it has the FFXI feel that I enjoyed for years but feels different enough that I am learning as I go. Myself and a friend started a linkshell yesterday (we both started playing at the same time) and would love for you to join us. Part of what makes the game fun is playing with others so the more we get the better! We aren't RP but we are friendly and helpful and we don't care if you RP =) I'll be home later tonight if you are on and want to join look me up.