Toxicity and Community

[Caurcas]

And that is how toxicity begins.

You don't need to automatically respect someone else but you do need to respect boundaries. Common courtesy goes far unless the other person has no interest in being courteous.

Then you missed my point. It's not "toxicity" its using your freedom to create and carve out your own community. One that is an actual community rather than a loose collection of players vaguely connected by interest.