Ativan, korekera, and Drakonic are all so known at this point that including them in any "HAH THIS is proof that XIV is a bad community!" Is like grabbing the class clown from one school and going "HAH! THIS is proof that all students are horrible!"
Forums attract contentious folks. We're not representative of the community at large, there are at most 70-80 people active on the forums outside of technical support or lore discussion. We're representative of the extremely small subset of the community that is more willing to argue and nip at each other. And even smaller still is the subset of the community that comes on here just to troll.