How has your mindset changed with regards to other players since your started the ga?

[Rein_eon_Osborne]

We tend to be much harsher on ourselves with performance than outside observers.

While this may be true at least to my own instance, there’s the point where the ‘nice player’-attitude becomes too much to handle & detrimental to players’ overall improvement which are... not nice at all.

Asking for an advice or commentary only to get a “you’re fine!” on the face doesn’t feel good at all. I wasn’t asking for a reassurance. I was asking for a suggestion that may improve my gameplay so I can be a better functioning player in the community & not be a deadweight myself a.k.a. wasting other people’s time. Such replies & the excessive tip-toeing is simply not exactly conducive for improvement.

/playdead

[Quintessa]

While this may be true at least to my own instance, there’s the point where the ‘nice player’-attitude becomes too much to handle & detrimental to players’ overall improvement which are... not nice at all.

Asking for an advice or commentary only to get a “you’re fine!” on the face doesn’t feel good at all. I wasn’t asking for a reassurance. I was asking for a suggestion that may improve my gameplay so I can be a better functioning player in the community & not be a deadweight myself a.k.a. wasting other people’s time. Such replies & the excessive tip-toeing is simply not exactly conducive for improvement.

/playdead

Youre fine probably because in thier minds you are fine.

On the other hand some arent sure how to deliver constructive criticism without worrying about rubbing someone the wrong way. There's even some folks who ask for this but then cant take it.

I once had a friend who was just straight up bad. Getting her to upgrade her gear was like trying to scratch my back without a back scratcher.

It turns into a darned if you do darned if you dont thing.