Another insightful post.I certainly appreciate a bit more elaboration on the content, too, and should me and Daughter ever decide to have a bash at it, I've a little foresight on it. Always useful. Out of everything I've read, your last two posts have been the most helpful (although we do not mention the P word (princess) in this household. One time, Daughter was reminded hair must be brushed, at least before going out to school. There was a torrent of rage and "I don't want to be a *expletive* princess!" Child, you were only told to brush your hair.) Anyway, thank you! <3 Also, I'm quite reminded of a film I loved a lot when I was younger, which touches on these themes too: "The Company of Wolves." For me, it was one of the first films that seemed tailored to a young girl's experiences with becoming a young adult. Think I was 16, 17, maybe 18 when I first saw it, and I certainly owned a video of it! Also, Labyrinth flirts with some of this stuff too, but in a much, much tamer way (except for David Bowie's crotch area, of course. Nothing tame about that).
I watched a quick vid earlier today with girls aged 6 (IIRC) - 17. A fair few said they felt so much pressure to look a certain way, and lots had encountered negativity and bullying over any which way they looked or behaved - it wouldn't really matter, either. Too big, too small, too this, too that. They said a lot of it came from social media, then media in general. They all want to look like a Kardashian or something. Nothing was mentioned about intellectual pursuits or sporting endeavours (which makes me sad too), it was just about looks. It was quite heartbreaking (especially knowing I have a kid going through this). Some of the ones in puberty felt shame about themselves because of what others had said to them. It's horrible. Why is this done? Well, it's certainly one way to get a girl to shut up and "know her place". There'll be other "reasons" too, but they will be stupid and pointless and cruel. But young girls will, by and large, believe what they're told, even if they see the lie for what it is. And if they hear it over and over again, well, perhaps they just accept it's all them, they do look terrible and ought to be ashamed of themselves merely for existing and having the audacity to be female along with it. Keep being told a thing over and over and you have to be very strong mentally not to buy it, and because they're not fully developed mentally, it's harder for young girls to break out of it. It can lead to a good deal of adult life being hampered as a result. I speak from experience.
This is the only reason I want creators to have a care when putting their things out there - not that it shouldn't be out there at all. We need more open content in general life, constantly updated for the younger generations that they can identify with, without insulting them or belittling them (for example, my films above may not go down so well with a younger audience simply due to their age. Fie! For shame, and yet The Company of Wolves as a horror film with some gore certainly isn't something to show my daughter just yet - she is still 13 after all. She still has nightmares about that time she accidentally saw Skyrim spiders when she was 6 and she still has a Fred Savage-in-The Princess Bride reaction to kissing in films and TV. Does have a happily confessed crush on Alphinaud, though! ... sorry for tangent). I'm all for it being out there, just responsibly. However, I think this time I'm going to go with your take on this and say this particular content should be there and can be sensibly discussed. Bowing out of the thread now, I've got what I came for. Thanks again, QT, you've really helped me out, whether you meant to or not. You have a great day/night, you.![]()



I certainly appreciate a bit more elaboration on the content, too, and should me and Daughter ever decide to have a bash at it, I've a little foresight on it. Always useful. Out of everything I've read, your last two posts have been the most helpful (although we do not mention the P word (princess) in this household. One time, Daughter was reminded hair must be brushed, at least before going out to school. There was a torrent of rage and "I don't want to be a *expletive* princess!" Child, you were only told to brush your hair.) Anyway, thank you! <3 Also, I'm quite reminded of a film I loved a lot when I was younger, which touches on these themes too: "The Company of Wolves." For me, it was one of the first films that seemed tailored to a young girl's experiences with becoming a young adult. Think I was 16, 17, maybe 18 when I first saw it, and I certainly owned a video of it! Also, Labyrinth flirts with some of this stuff too, but in a much, much tamer way (except for David Bowie's crotch area, of course. Nothing tame about that).
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