Why is glamour shaming still such a huge problem in FF14? Let's fix it in 2020.

[Eloah]

Oh OP is a troll all right. If you look him up you'll see that he and the OP from the catgirl/lightning hair thread are in the same FC, and that everyone in there has a "dude bro" style name. Also notice that only those two, along with one Hrothgar a high enough level to even post here. And notice that everyone fro. The same race has a similar appearance. The two 80s though do have some MSQ minions though, so they do seem to "play" the game some. But these threads, urgh....

Here is there FC members list

The other day while I was wearing my succubus glam I was standing near a friend (who happened to me male)...

But was your friend wearing an incubus glam? Because otherwise the whole theme is just ruined. This is why we can't have nice things people.

[SweetestLily]

There is a certain level of conflict there. If you don't want to be called a duck, don't quack.

Except for the fact that a person is allowed to dress their character in any way they please. That does not magically give people the right to call them a derogatory term. Succubus is the name that I MYSELF invented for the outfit after my friends said it reminded them of one. Imagine calling every female you see wearing the nier legs and bikini top (which is a popular outfit pairing) a slut and justifying it by saying "well then you shouldn't dress that way". Not that I care about these comments, but your way of thinking and rationalizing that is wrong.

[Eloah]

There is a certain level of conflict there. If you don't want to be called a duck, don't quack.

Dude why? I thought you were better than that. I mean, that logic is so easily reversable, especially in the world we live in nowadays.

[Rhus]

I don't think I've ever been shamed about my glamour. I've had comments from people bu just brushed them off. You know the ones when you load in to a duneon as tank wearing platekini and you get people eye rolling and praying them comment about how I'll get killed with so little protextion.

Similar when I was running Dusk Vigil as rdm and had the shisui set on someone in the group asked if I was struggling in the cold wearing that outfit. again just keep quiet and move on. nothing sinister though

[TheMightyMollusk]

There is a certain level of conflict there. If you don't want to be called a duck, don't quack.

Whatever you say, kiddo.

[spf1200]

My only problem with all the provacative glamours is the lack of originality. Oh you have the 2b bottom with a bikini, Ruby tide, or hempen top you must be such an interesting person to come up with that.

[lolicon09]

Cheap troll post 1/10

[KalinOrthos]

There is a certain level of conflict there. If you don't want to be called a duck, don't quack.

"If you really didn't want to be assaulted at that club, maybe you shouldn't have been dressed like that."

[Beautevil]

This happened to me only once in this game. It was a stupid passive aggressive comment and I just ignored them and moved on. Truth is.. those types of players will always be around and the key is to ignore them. It's not even that bad in this game.

When I used to play WoW, it was a lot worse. There's an awful stigma associated to female characters who dress in skimpy glam. It automatically made them a "bad player". This would result in many unjustified kicks and harassment from players in the party. I recall one player getting kicked from a dungeon (before we even started), the reason: "go erp somewhere else!"

[hasana]

Except for the fact that a person is allowed to dress their character in any way they please. That does not magically give people the right to call them a derogatory term. Succubus is the name that I MYSELF invented for the outfit after my friends said it reminded them of one. Imagine calling every female you see wearing the nier legs and bikini top (which is a popular outfit pairing) a slut and justifying it by saying "well then you shouldn't dress that way". Not that I care about these comments, but your way of thinking and rationalizing that is wrong.

He is right tho.
Don't get me wrong someone should play whatever they want, dressed however they want without getting unnecessary comments especially the disrespectful ones but that is not how reality works and therefore if you can't deal with it you should avoid having to deal with it.