Quote Originally Posted by NealSnow View Post
And hardcore raiders can't fathom why everyone else calls them toxic, or worse for that matter. The talk of dps lose in a fucking lvling dungeon is just ridiculous. Reminds me of people who freak out if a tanks near death and you just use 1 vercure to make sure the healer gets their heal off.

If in a dungeon you wanna still play like it's savage fine, do your best but remember this is an online game where gear is importent. I was sch doing do a castle, I was not bis cause I was just on a lvling spree so using just dungeon gear. I told the tank this yet he kept claiming "I play sch I know what it's capable of" yes as do I, however I probably was meeting just minimum requirements so...

And as a bonus I main tanks and I'm actually kind enough to ask the healer if they can do big or small, because it's polite to ask. Don't have to but it costs nothing to be a decent human being to another, does it?

So OP, don't worry too much about these peeps giving you a hard time. They say wanting a tank to slow down imposes on that playstyle, but it can so both ways. Expecting big pulls is also imposing on another, just because big pulls are a thing, doesn't mean that's how the dungeon is designed to be ran as the correct way. Both are acceptable.
I mean nothing toxic has been said, there has been some critical discussion of OP's account of the matter, and a general consensus, that you shouldn't expect a paladin to use clemency to prevent a wipe.

And to take from the casual player base and their in general more toxic natured responses, "you don't pay my sub".