Funny cause I find most in game bullies tend to play lalafells.

But anyway. It's likely not going to help but the best advice is to remember its an online game. You need to have a bit of a tougher skin here. The internet can be nasty and if you need to make a choice not to let it bring you down. Play your lala, if ppl wanna talk smack, let em. who cares what some rando, has to say about your character choices. If they do it in game, report em for harassment, if you read it online just tell yourself "F%$& em" and move on.

Online harassment is nothing new and its not going to go away. You need to adapt and learn and, sad to have to say it, but toughen up. Maybe teach your kids better so when they go online they are not said bullies.

And fyi, its likely not just dudes, women who play this game can be just as nasty. I had to boot more than a few women outta my fc and discord for being some of the worst trolls Ive had to deal with in 2 decades of mmos.