I mean really...this is what's wrong with the FFXIV community. Literally NO competitive spirit.

You're getting your ass kicked? Get good, make some friends and get good together, now you have yourself a group of friends to do FL with.

PvP is actually pretty good in FFXIV - the community and its lack of competitive spirit, as shown time and time again here, is the biggest issue and I blame SE for this. They are constantly trying to dumb things down in PvE and PvP so that people won't get their feelings hurt.