Wow, there are a lot of people in here that didn't read the post and need to calm tf down. The OP isn't asking to harass anyone. The question is basically "if someone asks what their parse looks like in chat, can i get away with telling them?"

The answer is YES. When people get banned or suspended for bringing up parsing, it's for HARASSMENT. That's the specific language of the ban or suspension. Third-party tools are not mentioned. No one got banned for talking about guildworks in shout - no one gets banned just for mentioning parsing or number upon request.

As long as what you say isn't something that can be construed as harassment, you're fine.