Tales from Duty Finder: Some make you laugh, some make you cry. Let's vent.

[Wynn_Storm]

No, I read it. Which is why I said that I hope you learned your lesson. Did you read mine?
Enmity is a party responsibility, and I hope you realize that now.

That experience isn't what made me learn to use diversion.

I learned to use it by myself later on.

With more polite people, who weren't quick to become toxic jerks who berate you.

[HyoMinPark]

That experience isn't what made me learn to use diversion.

I learned to use it by myself later on.

With more polite people, who weren't quick to become toxic jerks who berate you.

I’m glad you learned it was important!

As already stated though, you got snarky with the party first—so, technically you were the “toxic jerk” first...

I don’t know why you were expecting them to be polite in return. Generally, it’s not easy to be polite to someone who gives you attitude on two occasions. Or who tries to shirk their own responsibilities onto other people. Like someone else said, I can see why you were kicked if you were giving them attitude for errors of your own. Some people don’t want to deal with that.

[MetalSnakeXI1]

Boy today was just not the day to queue for alliance raids.

First queue through alliance roullette as monk we get World of Darkness,the tanks were bouncing aggro between each other all the time during the first trash pull.At first i didn't think much of it until the shitshow started on Angra Manyu.None of the tanks could hold aggro on him so the boss kept spinning and lasering the alliances.The tank in our alliance never cleansed doom through the platforms and dies.another round of lasers and we wipe.

Round 2,almost the exact same thing happen and despite me using diversion,I ended up the highest target on aggro as soon as the tank died.In my vein hope to stop the boss from spinning,I pop fist of earth and kept the boss centered as much as I can .......then the healers died immediately after,neither tanks from the other alliances picked the boss off me so I die with the rest of alliance A that I was in and we wipe with a vote abandon getting by and ending the run right then and there

Attempt number 2 on alliance roullette and I get Rabanstre.Nice I can get another coin to augment my monk's scaevan gear I thought.

Mateus goes well without a hench.... and then we get to Hashmal and I swear to god it's almost week 1 again.People dying by the dozen on Hashmal's half-room cleave and 2 out of the three wipes were the result of the other alliances not killing their sand orb in time.Never had I thought I'd see a second set of golems on Hashmal cuz usually we kill him either before the second set pops up or we kill him so fast we dont even see him summoning the golems.And let me tell ya it's been a while since I've seen submission tower.

Speaking of feeling like week one,I queue for Orbonne 5 hours later for the weekly coin and gear drops.And boy Cidulfus has it in for us.

I don't wanna put too much blame on one of our healers since they were new(but the other healer wasnt) but boy the problems with healing extended to almost all three alliances

Heals were so slow on cleansing strike to the point that on the second cleansing strike after the ad phase....we wipe from Doom.

second round,we wipe on the ad phase cuz one of our DPSes felt like cleaving alliance C with Divine Ruination

third and fourth round all were due to bubbles overlapping with each other and FINALLY,after the co-healer left and we got a new one(with almost the entirety of alliance B leaving save for a few iirc) we get through Cidulfus and kill ultima with no wipes.


Yikes my luck with alliance raids this day was horrific xD

[Drayce1]

Its true, Tanks are not fully responsible for threat, I just smoke screened a tank killing a mouthy RDM today. Guess I share responsibility too!

[Wynn_Storm]

I’m glad you learned it was important!

As already stated though, you got snarky with the party first—so, technically you were the “toxic jerk” first...

I don’t know why you were expecting them to be polite in return. Generally, it’s not easy to be polite to someone who gives you attitude on two occasions. Or who tries to shirk their own responsibilities onto other people. Like someone else said, I can see why you were kicked if you were giving them attitude for errors of your own. Some people don’t want to deal with that.

Uh no, if that's what you call being a toxic jerk then you have incredibly low standards for toxicity.

What i said was no where near the level of them insulting me and calling me R-----ed and other vicious stuff.

If you think i deserved to be insulted like that, then you are no better than they are.

You come off completely condescending.

[HyoMinPark]

Uh no, if that's what you call being a toxic jerk then you have incredibly low standards for toxicity.

What i said was no where near the level of them insulting me and calling me R-----ed and other vicious stuff.

If you think i deserved to be insulted like that, then you are no better than they are.

These are all details that you did not include in your original telling of your story. Apologies if I was unaware of details never shared. No, I don't think that's acceptable behavior. But it was also behavior you never shared beforehand, so I don't think it's quite fair to judge my assessment of their behavior on things I was unaware of.

That being said, your tone in this post could use some simmering down.

You come off completely condescending.

And your tone is coming off as unnecessarily aggressive. I suppose we both have things to work on.

Please note that condescension was used by you first when you required your post under the assumption that I apparently cannot read. Calm down.

[Wynn_Storm]

These are all details that you did not include in your original telling of your story. Apologies if I was unaware of details never shared. No, I don't think that's acceptable behavior. But it was also behavior you never shared beforehand, so I don't think it's quite fair to judge my assessment of their behavior on things I was unaware of.

That being said, your tone in this post could use some simmering down.



And your tone is coming off as unnecessarily aggressive. I suppose we both have things to work on.

Please note that condescension was used by you first when you required your post under the assumption that I apparently cannot read. Calm down.

I didn't think i would need to spell it out. I would think you could imagine how a toxic group of people would treat a random they didn't like.

That being said maybe i am frustrated because this is a thread to vent your frustration? And you coming off as condescending doesn't help that.

So yeah, maybe i am aggressive. Maybe back off if you don't want to deal with it.

[Hash_Browns]

Uh no, if that's what you call being a toxic jerk then you have incredibly low standards for toxicity.

What i said was no where near the level of them insulting me and calling me R-----ed and other vicious stuff.

If you think i deserved to be insulted like that, then you are no better than they are.

You come off completely condescending.

You never mentioned this in your post at all, and need to understand that from the way you presented your story, you seem to be in the wrong as well.

[HyoMinPark]

I didn't think i would need to spell it out. I would think you could imagine how a toxic group of people would treat a random they didn't like.

People treat people differently. There are often times where people kick those they don’t like silently with not a word said; there are other times where they are more open with their “toxicity”. I would think that you could imagine people may behave differently from one another.

But, again. By all means, be angry with me for not knowing details that you didn’t share. You just said they gave you snark after you gave them two instances of snark yourself. You never said they called you names or questioned your mental intelligence. You can’t get angry at people for not knowing what you don’t share. We aren’t clairvoyant.

That being said maybe i am frustrated because this is a thread to vent your frustration? And you coming off as condescending doesn't help that.

So yeah, maybe i am aggressive. Maybe back off if you don't want to deal with it.

You can be frustrated at the situation. But being aggressive towards poster that have nothing to do with it is the same kind of toxicity that you are ranting and raving about with regards to that party.

Regarding condescension, don’t dish out what you can’t take.

[Wynn_Storm]

You can be frustrated at the situation. But being aggressive towards poster that have nothing to do with it is the same kind of toxicity that you are ranting and raving about with regards to that party.

Regarding condescension, don’t dish out what you can’t take.

Yeah no, i am no where near the level of the group i was grouped with. I replied telling you that i had already learned my lesson and you kept going and going.

So don't try to act completely innocent here, when you aren't.

You kept lecturing with this holier than thou type of attitude.

Whether that was the intent of your words or not, you have to keep in mind that your words can get misconstrued it is the internet. I can't hear how you would say these things to me.

Regardless i am done on this matter. This was not worth the time.

I mean, you said you weren’t going to argue over it... but you’re still here arguing with me over it.

Also look at that, another post trying to antagonize me. Yeah i am seriously done with this low bait trolling.