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No, you seem to be misunderstanding what the issue is. If you look at the threads on Reddit the players were using their houses and if you are entering your house regularly, why would you check the timers?.
In one case the player contacted a GM who apparently admitted the house had been demolished in error but did not return the plot to them, despite it being empty at the time.
I was hoping one of the people affected might make a post here but not everyone is able to post on the OF. However, it's clear the issue is more serious than people not using their houses and /or not checking their timers after a period of inactivity.