Lately after reading a few of the 'FFXI vets please respond' threads, I thought back to my close to 7 years with FFXI on the Shiva server, starting at NA launch and ending when level cap was 90 and Abyssea was the 'endgame'. I often, actually I always, miss the community aspect of FFXI. The game had tons and tons of flaws, but it nailed the feeling of being a part of a 'server community' in a way FF14 never can.
I think that having a cross server (datacenter) duty finder and party finder is what makes FF14 less of a community based game than FFXI. In FFXI, I remember forming parties at the dunes outpost or gate to Selbina, finding a potential party member who maybe needed help getting to us at our camp spot, and then perhaps even having to jump on a higher level job after changing in Selbina to help run them through La Thiene or something, past trains of gobs at the Dunes entrance and such (back before they got rid of training of mobs).
In FFXI, people you met in a party you may and probably would see again. Even others in other parties around your own you could meet and eventually maybe party up with and play together. That WHM you met in Garlaige you may meet again in Sky or Abyssea, and may eventually become a part of your LS or static. That elitist who constantly griefs others would soon get a name for themselves and find they either need to clean up their act or start a new character since reputation actually mattered. These and many more aspects of 'community' are lost when there is a cross world duty finder that allows for pretty much total anonymity because, as is often said here 'you'll probably never see that person again' so you can act any way you like. Others in your parties become virtual NPCs with 'hey healer' or 'hey sam' replacing peoples' character names, etc. -- I understand this is the way it is, and I'm not saying it is good or bad since people may prefer it this way -- but I do think it is what makes trying to build a community in FF14 a lot harder than in FFXI
Of course, people have their FCs and LSs that allow them to interact with those they like and/or have found compatible. These are both great! However, I just miss the sense of server community that feels as though is hard to find in any MMO at all these days, not only FF14 but WoW and others, too. In a way, I kind of wish we still had specific server only duty finders and all but I know queues may take forever, then, and that the cross server DF and PF is an amazing QoL improvement. Just nostalgic, I guess ^_^v Thoughts?