Dear Healers who don't DPS

[Bourne_Endeavor]

While I understand in PF content like savage and ex fights because that requires you to go at it. DF is just casual content that many do to just relax, not feel as if they're having a second job.

No one is saying otherwise. I always expect the worst going into DF. That doesn't mean on a discussion forum I'll say "play however you like." Furthermore, how is asking someone to play their job properly comparable to working a second job? You go Holy into Aero III and heal when necessary. If this is honestly too difficulty for you, perhaps you shouldn't be playing healers. The entire point of these debates is why only one role gets a continual excuse. A tank that doesn't rotate CDs will often get yelled at by their healer unless said healer feels like a challenge. Same goes for DPS who refuse to AoE. They are also far more likely to get kicked for whining because DPS are a dime-a-dozen. Only healers get to "relax" by standing around and letting everyone else do all the work. If every healer played like that, you'd be better off with a Red Mage.

Maybe it's time for the vocal minority to just sit down and shut up....

Or perhaps its time for the "majority" (I doubt that claim) to stop expecting others do all the work. Don't like being called an average to below average healer? Learn how to use your full toolkit, not ignore a third of it.