So with the lack of content post story whats everyone doing to stay busy?

[Nezerius]

its sad we have to purposely slow level jobs for content, I have two Jobs below sixty hard quing everything just to occupy my time

We? Don't you mean just you? I'm just fine with the pace I'm leveling alt jobs at. I'm not in a rush with getting them all to 70, so I'm not purposely slowing things down.

If I don't feel like leveling, I can go out and gather stuff that I need to craft i320 gear for the alt jobs that I already have at 70, since I prefer doing that over simply buying all the mats off the marketboard, even if I have enough gil to do so.
Aside from that, I'm still progressing on v4s for a few nights a week, and I still haven't farmed the bird mounts or the dog mounts yet, so that's something I can still do (that interests me) while waiting on 4.1.

But most importantly, I can always just play another game for a bit if I don't feel like doing any of the above.