OP clearly has no idea how mmo communities work it seems.

You've told us what you don't wanna do. Well, that's great. So what do you want to do? Just play the game how you would like it to be? Games have rules. They have good-better-best models for encounters/boss fights. They have people who wanna win easy and consistently, not just one time by the skin of their teeth.

Some content just needs to be hard, even if just for a little while. You'll get to enjoy that content when either you decide to do what you feel needs to be done to take a shot at it or it gets nerfed to just fit what you've got right then.