Honestly, I can see the two sides of the argument, and honestly I feel that both sides are being equally selfish against the opposing side.

The main goal should be about having fun. I find it somewhat distressing anyone would consider that one person's fun would potentially ruin their own fun. As far as I understand if something isn't fun, then it's being done wrong. So where's the compromise? Does it ultimately matter if one side "gets it's way?" Is there a course of action that let's everyone win? Can there be options implemented that cater to both?

Here are a couple suggestions that I feel would hopefully make at least a good handful of you happy.

1. Unlock glamour options for those that have earned the necessary job level to equip a certain piece under normal conditions

This would also include AF gear. If I have leveled my Summoner to the point where I have earned and can equip those AF pieces, I should have the option to glamour it to a similarly leveled gear piece for a different. Obviously no glamouring to those pieces of a lower level. We don't want level 1 anything running around in full Summoner AF. If a with a job at level 60 job wants to glamour gear from another job they have at 60, I see no issue. They have earned necessary levels, and the necessary gear, they should be able to glamour it how they choose.

2. Additional options to display other player glamours to your preference.

I would suggest implementing a selection of glamour display "filter" options. These would include displaying glamours in duties, displaying glamours towns, and displaying glamours in zones outside of town (where combat could occur). This set of suggested options could all be tailored to the individual player preference, depending on the type of experience the player wishes to have. If the player wants to see other players in their traditional gear, they can toggle all options to not display glamours. If what other players are wearing makes no difference to a player experience, then they can choose to display glamours. If other player expression bothers someone that much, I suppose the option could be taken further to automatically display other players in the AF of their current job, instead of what they are actually wearing as glamours.

Honestly, I say let people have their fun. However, I also understand that these suggested options shouldn't come at the cost of the immersive experience (we have snowman tanks for that). People do play this game for a wide variety of reasons, and I feel that there should be more options implemented to cater those varying playstyles. As long as they keep those options out of the Mog Station, of course.