Marriage Partner Hookup Megathread!

[JumperX]

I agree with you. A lot of ppl just fall in the trap of lust and forget to ask themselves if that is correct. The other pixel is controlled by another human being who may pr not like what I like or be in a relationship or not already.

[Nauarchia]

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[Dreamsoap]

Dumb character limit not letting me quote people

Sorry that's a bad habit of mine. I meant 'you' in the general sense. I was seconding your point of protecting yourself, via not treating it as any dating or marriage expectation. The first sounds like a Drama King for sure. But the second is a little iffy. It almost sounds like he deserves a second chance but there's also a lot of context I'm not privy to.

[MisterLucie]

I suppose there's no harm in trying! Just recently came back to the game after a fairly lengthy hiatus, couldn't hurt to at least make a new friend

Server: Hyperion
Willing to transfer? Probably!
Personal Interests: I'm a weeb trash gaymer nerd, so... all the things that that may entail.
Play schedule: I work a lot and my schedule isn't particularly stable, but I try to be on quite a bit.
What kind of gamer are you: When my scheduling permits I usually tend to be fairly hardcore. Gaming is probably my biggest passion... I've even got Pokemon and Final Fantasy tattoos. That kind of gamer.
Character Gender: Male.
Do you care if the player in real life is not the same gender as their character? Yes.
Character Race: Au Ra
Preferred Race: Miqote, Midlander Hyur, Au Ra. Male only.
Main class?: BRD/WHM. Trying to decide on one to stick with after being gone for so long.
Dislikes: Beetles. Sparkling water. Jerks. Mayonnaise.
Goals for the game: Right now I'm mostly wanting to catch up, get all my jobs leveled, and perhaps find a decent static (or at least a group of friends!) to go into the next expansion with.
Goals for the marriage union: A friend to play with. MMOs are so lonesome when none of your friends are there anymore. I also enjoy a bit of RP. Yeah, wink wink nudge nudge.
Etc: muah~ ❤

[Amirya]

I can infer if I stay with a Lala partner, how complex feelings there'll be everyday. For the same intention of hiding, I need a block, while a Lala just needs a body.

Isn't that the truth. I shall root for you to find your non-Lalafellin partner! (Perhaps, they shall be tall like you too!)

[Magic-Mal]

I have many friends(female) who married someone for fun but then.. it wasn't very fun anymore when their partner got serious as if it was a real relationship. Things like possessiveness, trying to take things to new levels, and things like restricting them to their race because they want them to stay their race.

FFXIV is a game and imo, the eternal bond should not be used as a gateway to something that my become a RL relationship. Tbh I don't think it should even be discussed unless both people feel the other is ready for something like that. Other than that, I don't think relationships should be sought. I agree with Dreamsoap. Sadly, when two people marry in-game friendships are often broken between people because others are upset they couldn't marry one of them. That's a bad sign. This actually happened to my BF because one guy was getting out of hand so I told him off. He hates him now.. even though he was my BF go begin with

FFXIV is not a dating website or dating simulator so if that's what you're looking for in this thread, I think those places are for you(general you) instead. But I'm just a forum person xP. Bringing RL into something that's supposed to be kept in-game may not likely cause physical harm.. but emotional harm? Yes. For whatever reason.

[JumperX]

@magic mal I can understand what you say, but....

Why is your bf marrying other than you? I don't think it is right a married person or a person in a relationship to look for a Random person and interact with that person for many weeks and become friends and then say "I'm in a relationship". I know a few ppl from this thread that actually experienced that.
The person they EB were just friends but flirtation was going out, but something didn't go well and then those ppl brought up that.."BTW I m in a relationship in RL". I am never attached to in game friends, but in real life I can be. I'm very possessive with my friends. If I think something is not good for them. I will discuss it. It amazes me when a bf/gf or spouse won't even play the game and EB their partner just cuz they don't play video games. From my experiences that I heard ft many friends problems, you need to friend zone the person you are thinking to EB because let's be realistic there is flirting one way or another. If one person just flirt with someone they like and the other person flirt to play around, things can get nasty. Any type of relationship with another human being needs to be planned.

@dreamsoap, IMO, the first person sounds like a hummingbird. He likes to receive love and leave things vague. The second person sounds indecisive. It is alright to do that with an object but with another person ? I think Maura shouldnt waste time and the second person will learn fr this mistakes to know how to talk with another person.

[Magic-Mal]

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No no no lol. We did marry, my bf and I. We just didn't go through the ceremony at that time. The guy got mad that my bf told him to back off from me because we were already a couple. He was intruding in our relationship and didn't care about his(my bf's) feelings at all.

I definitely don't agree with people not playing the game restricting their partners in-game from marriage. One of my friends is restricted from marriage because her BF doesn't allow it even though he doesn't play.

[Snow_Princess]

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Server: Balmung
Willing to transfer? No (There is a few reasons I can't, one being FC loyalty, the other too much gil)
Personal Interests: This supposed to be interests as far as the game? Uh crafting?
Play schedule: near 24/7 ( I need to sleep and go out here and there)
What kind of gamer are you: I am a social person. This means if someone is causing problems on a social level, I care about solving that over completing the duty. I believe in kicking people over ToS violations like verbal abuse over "lets just get this done". This also means being outspoken when people fast pull that leads to people being locked out and other things of that nature.
Character Gender: Female
Do you care if the player in real life is not the same gender as their character? No
Character Race: Lalafall
Preferred Race: Lalafall (though does not matter as this is a preference but ya>.>)
Main class?: WHM/BLM/ maybe MCH for a 3rd
Dislikes: toxicity
Goals for the game: Just advance my crafting and gathering to the highest level tier. Having gear high enough to access w/e my partner wants to do.
Goals for the marriage union: Support each other, show that they care for each other. Do roulettes with each other, etc.

[mirainotorankusu]

Why theres like no ppl from Excalibur at all >. >