That is one crazy story. I've never seen a tank pick up the adds on first boss. Generally, as a SMN, I request the healer to stay close to the main boss so I can just bane and they'll all run in and die. Could have done the same thing there with BLM using Fire II or Flare on boss to kill adds if you went in close.
I generally request the tank picks up the add on the 2nd boss, as it seems to go much more smoothly than otherwise.
Not sure how the Grey Bomb not dying fast enough can be attributed to a bad tank lol - these deeps.









