Marriage Partner Hookup Megathread!

[bigbaldwolf86]

Server: Odin
Willing to transfer? No. Just transferred to Odin
Personal Interests: Gaming, Sports
Play schedule: Mainly evenings
What kind of gamer are you: I play most days and like to be social
Character Gender: Female/Male IRL
Do you care if the player in real life is not the same gender as their character? No
Character Race: Mi'qote
Preferred Race: Mi'qote, Au ra, Elezen
Main class?: DRG and I like to play WHM and DRK
Dislikes: nothing really
Goals for the game: I like to do as much as possible. I have most classes at 60 and I'm working on getting anima weapons for different classes
Goals for the marriage union: To hang out, have fun and someone to do content with

[MeiUshu]

I believe people that switch to another server are not bonded with their FC and online friends. If they were my real friends and/or family I am sure a lot of ppl will think it twice so idea of saying"I think it is silly", it is actually silly cuz you are not them and don't know what is really going on in their heads.

never thought, I would say this, but I agree with Dekal...

@Xanikk .just because it is not in your conception of things, doesnt make it silly. At worst, it makes it different.

[Xanikk999]

never thought, I would say this, but I agree with Dekal...

@Xanikk .just because it is not in your conception of things, doesnt make it silly. At worst, it makes it different.

It's silly to me and I am entitled to that opinion. Whatever floats your boat dude but I would never abandon my friends and guildmates for an online digital marriage with some stranger I don't know. If that's what you want so be it.

[MeiUshu]

I will try again....after one not so good experience (albeit I take my share of this failure)

Server: Bryn
Willing to transfer? depends
Personal Interests: anything that is not related to sport in general.
Play schedule: Mainly evenings
What kind of gamer are you: I am a casual player, although I want to do everything but cant due to timings and me not be a pro and all want pros, I progress at a slow pace for those reasons
Character Gender: Female both in and out of game
Do you care if the player in real life is not the same gender as their character? yes, I would prefer a male in and out of game
Character Race: Elezean
Preferred Race: As long as not a Lala (sorry for me is like i was seeing a kid) I dont care
Main class?: healer
Dislikes: egocentric, selfish, and above all, glue-type of people that cant think, do or breath without being stuck with someone like a stamp to a letter, add to this liars and the like
Goals for the game: I like to do as much as possible, in all fields.
Goals for the marriage union: To have someone to spend time, share stuff, suffer and laugh together, in failure and success. I dont need someone that needs a *Mother* I need a partner not a child and not someone that needs to do ALWAYS stuff with someone all day long. We are all people with our own desires and we all need our *solo time* too. Eventually, buy a house and build our own little *secret corner*..who knows. This kind of stuff is a long road and journey...worth it ? I wish I can find that out

[MeiUshu]

It's silly to me and I am entitled to that opinion. Whatever floats your boat dude but I would never abandon my friends and guildmates for an online digital marriage with some stranger I don't know. If that's what you want so be it.

who said you are are not entitled to your opinion ? where did you get that from ? Same as you gave your opinion I gave mine, isnt that what a Forum is for ? ohh yes, before I forget, when someone says* never*...that is generally the first thingthey will do....karma has a way you know to remind you that what is valid today can be a totally different thing tomorrow. Remind yourself of this too while you are at it : A partner may be something way more then * just *a friend. besides, online digital marriage is just liek online digital friendship....unless you know them out of game, and even those is no guarantee they will not turn their back to you one day even in IRL

[dboy1016]

Lamia server

[Malicewolf]

It's silly to me and I am entitled to that opinion. Whatever floats your boat dude but I would never abandon my friends and guildmates for an online digital marriage with some stranger I don't know. If that's what you want so be it.

The point was that not everyone is abandoning FC mates and friends. Sometimes people quit and then you're the last one standing. Maybe you just aren't a social butterfly and don't have group on your server. There's plenty of reasons. And sometimes, you only have some "online friends" but none that are so close, you feel compelled to be held there. It's nothing bad really. It's just that everyone has a different situation. I'm in a small FC in a lower pop server and I personally love it. No need to get defensive about it Simply put, people have different likes and circumstances. Let them do what makes them happy.

[dekal]

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You do know that there was a time you were strangers with those online friends and FC family. There's been stories out there that online couple actually became real life couple so the odds are present.

Let it be silly or not, the possibilities of becoming friends or more than friends are there. The same of anyone joining a FC. I didn't call my first fcs my family cuz in the end I didn't got anything that would make me want to stay with them.I even left other servers cuz I didn't feel an attachment to those places. As mei said your opinion is valid, but the other people opinion are as valid as yours. That is why I said it is silly calling someone else decisions silly cuz then everybody's idea is silly.

[Xanikk999]

Xanikk your attitude towards some of the process and possible sacrifices some make to find what they are looking for, is not going to put you in a positive light. Maybe step back and consider how everyone here has different types circumstances and expectations as well as are willing to go through extra obstacles for an online connection whatever it ends up being. Patience and a positive outlook are very attractive traits to invest in.

Why are people so insistent that you should have to sacrifice your server and community for a marriage partner? I'm in no rush and I don't feel anyone should have to do so.

[Malicewolf]

Why are people so insistent that you should have to sacrifice your server and community for a marriage partner? I'm in no rush and I don't feel anyone should have to do so.

Simply put, not everyone views it as a sacrifice or perhaps there is nothing being sacrificed for them. Others are LOOKING to leave their server anyways because they have no one there. If you don't want to leave your server, then don't. No one here is forcing you to. Other's can do so if they would like to though.