Gee I wasn't trying to offend anyone. I was echoing the previous poster who said that it takes time to build a connection. I didn't think people who got married in the game after just meeting really took the marriage thing serious and was just doing to it for fun, items, rp, etc. To find a real connection in game or in real life takes time. Personally I would think in game would take even longer because people are not as people friendly online. That's just my two cents. Good luck but be prepared to go through a lot of people to find what you're looking for.