I've always felt this complaint is really lame in a game like FFXIV. Maybe that was because I played a rogue for years in World of Warcraft, and was unable to queue as anything but DPS. Playing FFXIV, I was able to main a bard, while running a white mage in dungeons for fast queues and easy tomes. You can do everything on one character. You can use one class to support the growth of another class. The option is there, unlike in so many other games.