So...that is what my character would have done.
Raged and cursed, but when Raubahn said to go, S'anzu would still have gone, because this was not truly her fight, and because she as a person in that world would be wiser to the circumstances than a player of a game.
And when all was settled, after those who remained gathered at Dragonhead's hearth, armor and weapons away, tears shed and friends embraced, she would write letters of simple, honest thanks to Lords Haurchefant, Drillemont, and Aymeric for giving us what we truly needed then: A place to call home, if even for a short time, before we went to war again on fronts unknown.