I've never been apart of an MMO community that found everything so difficult(news flash it isn't) and was so scared to attempt content. If all you're gonna do is spend a 2 hours a month playing an MMO you need to find a single player RPG to play. If you can't put the time into a time sink(MMO) then you shouldn't play it, if it's too hard for you stop crying about the difficulty and get better.