Rude people in dungeons.

[Niwashi]

You should report that tank for harassment. Nobody has the right to spout off at you like that. Unfortunately, you'll come across some people who do so anyway. It's unfortunate that you got grouped with jerks on both of your first two dungeons. I've usually found the odds a bit better than that. Yes, joining a good FC should help. But even when in an FC, you may still end up in DF runs occasionally, either for Roulette or when not enough people from your FC are available to run an instance with you. You shouldn't have to put up with insults just because you're grouped with strangers.

[namidax]

Yup you need to report the guy and we will have one less rude player in this game. :P

[Deremna]

I'm sorry to hear I'm not the only one that has had unpleasant dungeon experiences. When I was tanking a dungeon the other night (lvl 21 Marauder), no one said a damn thing to me the whole time but right after we beat the dungeon, both DPSs were like "worst tank ever" and "wish you could uncommendate someone for sucking" and then immediately exited. I had said I was new to MMOs so I don't know why they expected me to be some perfect tanking machine grrrr.. I switched to a different server and made a new character because I was so upset.

Hope you have better experiences in the future.

[Sagittarian]

I switched to a different server ..

Just to let people know since there seems to be some confusion about this - the duty finder pulls from your entire data cluster, not just the 1 server. Using the DF from Malboro I can get anyone on the entire Primal cluster.

I started a thread for DF fun stories just because there are too many stories of bad runs.

[namidax]

I have an idea, maybe SE can try to put all the rude people into one server (instead of ban/warning) and let them only play each other for a while, and also put all the gillsellers there. Kinda think it would be funny to watch the youtube video of those runs >

[Taecyeon]

WOW thanks everyone for all the encouragement and advice! Wish I could group with you all!

You are right there is a lot of good people in the game it's just sometimes the bad ones stick with you longer.

[Taecyeon]

I'm sorry to hear I'm not the only one that has had unpleasant dungeon experiences. When I was tanking a dungeon the other night (lvl 21 Marauder), no one said a damn thing to me the whole time but right after we beat the dungeon, both DPSs were like "worst tank ever" and "wish you could uncommendate someone for sucking" and then immediately exited. I had said I was new to MMOs so I don't know why they expected me to be some perfect tanking machine grrrr.. I switched to a different server and made a new character because I was so upset.

Hope you have better experiences in the future.

Sorry also for your bad experiences Deremna! I know how you feel! Maybe one day we can travel together

[Yumi_umi]

If you are new to a dungeon, always say it at the start to prevent any "wtf don't you know that mechanic etc" moments.
Since the other 3 should now be aware you are new you can then proceed to carry on without having to fear about messing up.
If no one helps you out/ gives you pointers then that's all on them.
Learning yourself is going to be messy sometimes but hey that's how it goes lol.
Also if you have a tank that's acting all hot and stuff, tell them to back off and chill. Report them after if they fail to do so. As a healer i put hotshot tanks in their places, what do i care if they refuse to tank. We can just vote kick their butt or i can tank till the tank fixes their attitude and rejoins the group.
You probably had a tank who was i90+ with coil gear on, those tanks are usually douchés in the lower ( non 50 ) dungeons.

[Deremna]

Just to let people know since there seems to be some confusion about this - the duty finder pulls from your entire data cluster, not just the 1 server. Using the DF from Malboro I can get anyone on the entire Primal cluster. ..

I went from Primal to Aether in the heat of the moment, ha.

[Niwashi]

I went from Primal to Aether in the heat of the moment, ha.

Well, welcome to Coeurl, but I'm sorry to hear what brought you here. If it helps any, I've met more friendly people than rude ones. If you want to run a dungeon or something, I'm on most evenings as Y'kayah Tia or sometimes as Navarre Greave. Send me a /tell and I'll run something together with you and promise not to insult you (nor anyone else for that matter) in the process.