This game is just way to hard...

[Doo]

It does matter. Also DPS LB is the "optimal" alternative doesn't mean you're forced to do it every time.

Come on guy, you play this game too. How often do you even have LB3 up for healer to save everyone? Besides Garuda and Titan, hardly ever. If you do use healer LB3, then pretty much you're just messing around and made your party have to spend gil for repairs

I like that I don't have to spend hours collecting 200 necklaces or 100 ores to get a single spell... I mean back then it was fun but now? I can't really find the hours to spend like that so I rather be bland and straightforward, using some of my hours than to use a ton of hours to get anywhere really.

You're not doing anything different in this game. You're grinding dungeons to farm myths/soldiery/etc. You're grinding Fates for Atma. MMO's will have grind regardless of what type because new content will never be released fast enough to satisfy the player base and the only way to keep players playing is to create time sinks. So it just becomes whether the time sink is fun to you or not. You get items faster in FFXIV but the items you usually get becomes outdated in less than a day or week. Kill Garuda bland weapon drops, then next kill Ifrit replaced the bland Gar weapon with the bland Ifrit weapon. You can skip like 10 levels or so of gear while leveling up and heck you don't even need to get your AF armor.

Grind isn't what FFXI fans are asking for anyways. It's more diversity and complexity. Everyone in FFXIV basically has the same gear and same rotations.