one of the things you say in you posts i find quite insulting

*You can keep on defending this game and denying it's flaws through your blinded fanaticism as I once did. Or, you can take a step back and begin looking at things from different perspectives.*

this when it comes to game designs its about likes and dislikes, not good or bad.
here you're telling us what we like are flaws and need to be changed.
when it comes down to it what you want in the game is all opinion saying its a flaw because you don't like it is saying the game is suppose to be this way and it can't be another.