There are many worse communities. Go look at the Youtube comments of anything. Go on Twitch or any site with chat boxes.

It's just a societal thing. NAs are raised seeing that they can sue whoever does something they don't agree with or they can go home and complain about their teacher giving them homework and their parents will take their side. In Japan, parents get angry if their kid doesn't obey the teacher. It's a different problem, but at least it creates a community that genuinely wishes the dev.s of a game good health and people who wanna help each other succeed.

People are jerks. Find jerks you can understand/get along with or spend life looking for people that like to play pretend and enjoy being married to someone who doesn't admit that they're gay until they're 45.